Hill of Calvary - Guest Post by Janna Widdifield

Things have been a bit quiet at The Celebrated Family, but not in our house.  We are moving.  Again.  This time just a few miles away.  My wonderful fellow blogger friend Janna Widdifield is going to be joining us for the next week sharing some of her amazing Easter tutorials.  I know they will bless you and your family.  Janna blogs about raising big faith in her little spouts at Mustard Seeds, go check her out!



Tutorial: Hill of Calvary

Make your own Hill of Calvary for Easter. This grass garden features the hill where Jesus was hung on the cross and a small tomb where he was buried and rose again. It makes a very symbolic centerpiece for your Easter table and it an incredible teaching tool for your little sprout.
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Note: It's best to start your Hill of Calvary at least 2 weeks before Easter.
Supplies:
  • Potting Soil or Jiffy Mix--I do suggest picking up a bag of this. Wal-Mart carries it and it is super cheap. It is used to start seeds and has a good "mulchy" consistency that holds moisture well.
  • Gravel
  • A few small rocks
  • 10 inch terra cotta dish
  • 4 inch terra cotta pot
  • 4 inch terra cotta dish
  • Wheatberries for the grass--make sure they are organic and untreated. I got this big bag for under 2 bucks at Vitamin Cottage.
  • A good spray bottle
  • Sticks (for crosses)
  • Hot glue gun
  • Raffia and purple ribbon (optional)
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Step 1: Lay the 4 inch pot on its side in the 10 inch dish. Use smallish rocks to hold the pot in place.
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Step 2: Pour in a small layer of gravel for drainage.
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Step 3: Make mud! The best way to apply the soil/dirt is by first making mud in a separate container. (Sorry this isn't great picture..I was in the midst of experimenting.) Just put your soil and water in a bucket of some sort and mix it up. Your kids will love the mud pie batter.
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Step 4: Take handfuls of the mud and pack it all around the pot and in the dish. You will want to create a nice rounded hill.
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Step 5: Spread a thick layer of seed over the ENTIRE soil area. You may have to kind of push it into the soil a bit on the steep sides. This is very important: Don't be stingy with the seed. If you want nice, dense grass, the seed needs to completely cover the surface of the soil. (Don't just sprinkle it.)

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Step 6: Cover seed with a very thin layer of your mud mixture.
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Step 7: Bring your dish garden inside and put it in warm sunlight. I put mine on a metal TV tray next to our sliding door. Having it up off the ground is a good idea when you have little tots running around. Remember, the terra cotta is porous so it's going to leak some moisture. Don't just set it on your coffee table! Put a tray, plate, etc. underneath it.
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Step 8: WATER! For the first 3-4 days you will need to spray and water your hill three times per day. So if you are heading out for the weekend, wait to do this project until you get home. Before the seeds take root, the soil will run off pretty easily...(think erosion) so at first you will mainly need to rely on using a spray bottle to irrigate...
Once the grass takes root and matures, you'll be able to slowly drizzle water on it, without losing your hill. Now that my hill is fully mature, I stick it in the sink, turn the water on VERY low and then use my little sprayer hose to water.
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Also note that when the seed first starts to grow, it will actually "push up" some of the soil as seen here. Check out the crack above. Just drizzle water, spray and gently press the soil back down. You don't want it to dry out and just fall off.
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Step 9: Watch it grow! Within 2 days you will probably see small white roots shooting out.
Step 10: Make three crosses out of collected sticks. I used hot glue to hold them in place and then wrapped raffia around to secure it and hide glue. Note that the grass will grow faster and higher than you think. Make your crosses a little bit "jumbo" sized because they will need to be nestled down in the grass and yet, you still want to be able to see them.
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Other Tips:
  • The grass will be fully mature by day 7...and from then on out, you will be amazed at how fast it shoots up. Get out our scissors and give it a mow.
  • If you are using wheatberries...guess what?! You can make some juice. It's just like the wheat grass you buy at the health food store. I haven't tried this yet, so let me know if you do and you like it!
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Where is Jesus?
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He has risen! He has risen, INDEED! 
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Lessons from the Hill of Calvary:
As you work on creating the project, watering, etc. talk about the Easter story with your child. This is wholeMustard Seed thing in action--planting God's truth--while you are literally planting.
Anne and I had a particularly good conversation as we made the crosses. She wondered why there were three crosses instead of just one for Jesus. We got to talk about how there where two other men who died on the hill with Jesus, but they had actually done some bad things. Jesus was pure and did nothing wrong. He died on the cross for OUR sins.
"God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God." 2 Corinthians 5:21
Other questions followed:
Anne: "Why he didn't just get down? I would have helped him get down." 
Me: "Well, he did it just for us. He knew what we couldn't be with him because of OUR sin, so he died on the cross for OUR sin."
Good, profound truth happens when you are crafting/gardening sometimes.
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Other teaching ideas:
  • On Good Friday, wrap up a clothespin in white cloth and lay it in the tomb (Jesus).
  • On the Eve of Easter, remove the clothespin, leave the cloth and leave the tomb open for your child to discover first thing on Sunday morning.
  • If your kids are older, have each member of your family take a rock and write a personal struggle or sin on the stone with a permanent pen. Put the rocks in the tomb on Good Friday--the day Jesus died for our sins. On the Eve of Easter, remove the stones and throw them away. Leave the tomb open for the family to discover on Sunday morning.
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  • The path to the cross was paved by my sins. Put these rocks in the tomb...to once again die...with Christ. "He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification."  Romans 4:25
  • On Easter Jesus not only rose from the grave, conquering death, but he conquered our sin--FOREVER. Our sin is dead.
  • "God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God." 2 Corinthians 5:21
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The healing words of friends

I haven't written about Emily and I's Mother/Daughter bible study in a few months, but this past month's meeting was so beautiful I am so excited to share it with you.  Four months ago, our study leader Cindy, and I talked about me helping her lead one month.  We decided before the holidays, that come February I would do my Snowflake Devotion with the girls.  Only the Lord can plan things so well, as it turned out, (of course) this was just the time for this lesson.
Emily goes to a wonderful school with wonderful classmates, but even the sweetest little friendship from time to time turn a little sour.  Some of the girls in the class had been the target of some hurtful words that had left their little hearts aching and their egos bruised.  In spite of these tensions, our amazing moms and daughters showed up for bible study together and God in His graciousness planted some beautiful seeds of forgiveness and friendship.
The Snowflake Devotion, is a devotion I wrote a few years ago to study how God created each member of our family with unique gifts.  It translates well for a group of friends.  We read Gen 1:27 and Psalm 139:13-14.  We talked about how God takes care to create each snowflake that falls to be unique.  He takes even more care to uniquely create us, His children.


After our reading and discussion, each girl cut out her own snowflake.  Once the snowflakes were finished, each mom took her daughter's snowflake and personalized Psalm 139: 13 for them....  "Emily, you are wonderfully made."   Then each mother took her daughter around to write something special and unique on each one of the other little girl's snowflakes.  Once we were all finished, the snowflakes were collected and given back to their owners.  We sat together in a circle and each girl had a turn to read her snowflake out loud.  It was AMAZING!  There was not a dry momma eye in the house.  To hear your daughter read the wonderful things her friends see in her, is a gift of enormous proportions.  There were no two alike.  The girls had written such beautiful things about one another....

       .... you always let me play with you.
             ..... you help me with my work.
                   ..... you have a great imagination.
                         .... you always say nice things
                               .... when I came to Trinity, you were my friend.
                                     .... you solve problems
                                           .... you love Jesus


What a gift each girl received to know her friends see her for who God created her to be, and that they love who she is.  Cindy and I talk frequently about the power of this little Mother/Daughter bible study.  We live in a society where the mean girls seem to rule, and bullying in school is expected.  For moms to take the time to come to this group, to model studying the Word, prayer and Christian friendship for their daughters is amazing.  This little group of moms are a quiet and powerful rebellion against the social tide, a rebellion saying we just aren't going to accept society's messages for our daughters, we are going to give them something better.  We are going to show them Jesus and help them to be the friends God's desires them to be.


Into the waters

Sunday morning we had the great privilege of watching Emily go forward to be baptized.  That verb "watched,"  strikes my momma-heart, because it carries such a large truth.  We did not carry or bring our daughter forward, we did that 6 years ago, no yesterday we watched as she chose to announce her own faith. Her faith in a Savior who died for her.  A Savior she loves with such purity and beauty, that she amazes and teaches her mom and dad daily.


She went boldly and joyfully into the waters with a big pink cast on her arm and a smile on her lips.  
Watching her I saw, that this is how we are to approach the Kingdom of God;  with wiggling, naked feet that can't wait to go forth; with a heart so bursting with joy that it can't be kept from our lips;  with our brokenness unabashedly on display,  with nothing to offer, but that which Christ desires, ourselves.  

'Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus... so very sweet indeed.