August's Family Devotion: Olympic Spirit

Note to Parents:  In this devotion, you will need access to the Internet to read a story and watch a YouTube video.  Please note with the video that I selected this version for its video quality and words which I felt would help children understand what was happening.  I am not affiliated in any way with the group who posted the video.

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 August's Family Devotion:  Olympic Spirit

Introduction:  With the whole world watching, thousands of athletes are competing in the Olympics in London this month.  It is an elite group of talented men and women who have trained hard for this special honor.  Most of us will never be an Olympian, but did you know God has called us to run in an even greater race?  God wants us, all of his children, to race toward heaven.  For some the race will be long, it took Moses 127 years!  For some it will be a short race, but God cares only about the outcome. 

The apostle Paul wrote to his young friend Timothy toward the end of his life:

 “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day – and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.”  2 Timothy 4: 7-8   

God wants us to choose to race for Him, to race for heaven, where our prize will be eternal life with him.   As we watch the Olympics, there is a lot we can learn about how to run our own race of life and help others with theirs.  We are going to look at two things all successful athletes need, and see how we can apply them to own life. 

1.       All Athletes Need Training

All great athletes train hard to succeed in the sport of their choice.  Hours and hours are put into training.  It strengthens us.  It improves our understanding of our sport.  It prepares us to succeed. 

·         Discuss as a family ways that you train for sports in which your family is involved. 

God has set for us the race toward eternal life.  As Christians we know that we cannot gain eternal life through our work or efforts.  Jesus paid the price for our salvation.  But God does want us to train to learn how to live for Him during our time on earth.   God tells us through His Holy Word that studying scripture is an important part of our life training as Christians.  God wants us to regularly study his word and increase our knowledge and understanding of how God wants us to live. 

My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity.   - Proverbs 3:1

Teach me, O Lord, to follow your decrees; then I will keep them to the end.  Give me understanding, and I will keep your law and obey it with all my heart.  Direct me in the path of your commands, for there I find delight.  Turn my heart toward your statutes and not toward selfish gain.  - Psalm 119:33-36 

Hear, O Israel:  The Lord our God, the Lord is one.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.  These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts.  Impress them on your children.  Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.  Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  Write them on the doorframes. - Duet 6:4-8

This last passage of Scripture follows the Ten Commandments.  God wants his people to think and talk about these commandments in all parts of our lives.  Part of training as a Christian is to learn these commandments and apply them to how we live.  These are ten ways that God is telling us to live our life.   They are not always easy to follow. 

The fourth commandment says “Observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy, as the Lord your God has commanded you.”  In the 1924 Olympics a Scottish runner by the name of Eric Liddel had a difficult choice to make.  He loved the Lord and wanted to honor Him, but the race he was hoping to win was scheduled for Sunday.  What could Eric do?  This race was actually just the beginning of a big plan God had for Eric’s life.  Read about his life here:


Discussion Questions:

·         At the 1924 Olympic games Eric Liddel made a very hard choice.  What was it?

·         Eric was not expected to do well in the 400 meter event which he did chose to race in.  What happened?

·         If you were Eric Liddel would you have made the same choice?  Why or why not?

·         Discuss as a family times when you have had to decide between following God’s commandments and doing an activity you may have wanted to do.

1 Corinthians 9: 23-27 says:    I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.  Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize?  Run in such a way as to get the prize.  Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training.  They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever.  Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air.  No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize. 

Discussion: 

·         How did Eric’s life at and after the Olympic games live out 1 Corinthians 9:23-27.


2.       All Athletes Need Encouragement: 

In addition to training there is another thing that all successful athletes need, and that is encouragement.  No one makes it to the Olympics alone.  Parents, siblings, friends, teachers, and coaches surround young athletes with encouragement and support.  It is fun to watch the reactions and emotions of athlete’s family members as they compete.  It is obvious that they are all in the event together. 

The race toward heaven is no different.  We all need the support and encouragement of our family members and friends.  Scripture reminds us repeatedly to do all we can to encourage one another. 

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.  - Hebrews 10:24
 

See to it, brothers, that none of you has a sinful, unbelieving heart that turns away from the living God.  But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.   - Hebrews 3:13


All athletes know that sometimes times get tough.  There may be setbacks like injuries or illness.  There might be failures where one had hoped to win.  These are the times that athletes rely on the strength and support of family and friends even more.  Scripture reminds us that those who are strong should help those who are weak, building them up. 


We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves.  Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. - Romans 15:1


The 1992 Olympics in Barcelona was the stage for one of the most memorable Olympics examples of encouragement and support.  British track and field athlete Derek Redmond was no stranger to the Olympics.  He was a member of the 1988 Olympic team, but had to pull out of his event due to an injury to his achilles. Before the 1992 Olympics he had undergone eight operations and was favored to win the 400 meter event.  He was determined that this time he would finish his Olympic event. Watch this video to see what happened.





Discussion Questions: 

·         The video of Derek’s race is heartbreaking to watch.  Things did not go as he had hoped. What did you think when you saw Derek fall?  What did you think would happen?

·         Derek’s father came alongside him and helped him to finish his race.  How do you think it make Derek feel when his dad broke through security and reached him?

·         Can you think of a time that a family member came aside you to help you in a difficult situation?

·         Think of some ways your family could plan to help and encourage one another on a regular basis. 



Be Prayer Encouragers of Olympians:  Athletes in Action is looking for partners to pray for London’s Olympians.  Your family can sign up here http://olympics.athletesinaction.org/prayer-strategy/

You will be sent an e-mail with the name of several athletes, their country and sport.  Your family can start praying for these men and women by name.   

"Therefore, since we are surrounded

by such a great cloud of witnesses,

let us throw off everything that hinders

and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run

with perseverance the race marked out for us."

- Hebrews 12:1


Closing Prayer:  Dear Lord, we thank you for this time together to study your word.  We thank you Lord that your son Jesus Christ paid the price for our salvation.  Lord we desire to live lives that honor you as we race with perseverance the race you have marked out for us.  Help us Lord to be a family who encourages one another.  Help us to find ways to build each other up day by day.  Lord we ask that you would also open our eyes to see others who need our encouragements as well.  In your Son’s precious name we pray, Amen. 


Choosing Friendship

Our house is a buzz today with a vacuuming and dusting and some baking.  The Aunties are coming!  The Aunties are coming!  I love that my girls are as excited as I am that four of my college roommates – will be arriving in the next few days.  (We will miss you Jenn!)  Pete’s graciously taking them out of town so that Girls Weekend 2012 can take place at our house.  (Thank you Pete!)

 

1997-Jenn, me, Fara, Heidi, Manya and Caroline


Each year I marvel that I get to be part these girls …




... who for 19 years have kept a beautiful friendship alive.


I marvel at the blessing of calling them sisters.

 I count it as one of God’s great provisions in my life. 



I meet a lot of women who are amazed that I still have college friends.  I meet a lot of women who admit to not having any close friends.  I feel their sadness.  I can’t imagine what my life would look like without these ladies.   When women lament about not having long-time friends, I hear defeatism in their voices, as if it is too late to make deep friendships at 30, or 40, or 60. 
This defeatism is a lie.  Friendships are not the product of time, they are the product of choices.
 The choice made in each e-mail, each call, each time we forgive, each visit, each sacrifice, each Girls’ Weekend.  I am perpetually in awe that I have a group of women who make these choices for me.  Life is busy, and hard, and for our group distant – we lived together for 4 years and have lived now in different states and countries for 15 years.  I do not take these ladies for granted, because I know friendships only last as long as people continue to make these choices.
I have to wonder if those questioning women do not have friends because of their choices.  Choices not to call? Choices not to forgive? Choices not to visit? Choices not to make the time?  Choices not to be vulnerable enough to start a true friendship in the first place?  I do not say this out of coldness, or judgement. I say it out of a deep belief that there is a lot to be gained, or a lot to be missed, as a result of our daily choices.

So, if you are reading this today and count yourself blessed enough to have a friend, I hope you’ll chose:
·         to call her

·         to meet for coffee if you live nearby

·         to plan a girl’s weekend

·         to send her a card

·         to forgive her if you need to

·         to pray for her

If you read this and know you need a friend, you can start by :

·         inviting a neighbor over for dinner

·         starting a book club

·         bringing  someone a meal

·         inviting someone to walk or bike together weekly

·         calling a friend you have let slip away.

·         Praying for God to show you which people to invest in. 


One of the greatest gifts we can give our kids is living an example of friendship for them.  With TV full of mean girls, and life full of “busy”, our kids can learn so much about how to be a friend by watching their moms and dads with their own friends.  I pray that one day my girls will know the blessing of hearing their own kids singing out, “The Aunties are coming! The Aunties are coming!






Is God The Joker?

In the wake of last week’s Aurora shootings, we have all been inundated with the stories of horrors and miracles.  On Friday morning I scanned the news headlines and while saddened and confused by the news coming out of Denver, I have to say I read them in haste, busy with my own day.  It was not until later when I checked my phone.   The screen was full of missed calls and texts from friends back in Denver.

Petra Anderson was shot – call me
Kim’s daughter shot in the head – PRAY! 
Call me when you get this!!!
In the days since the shooting, Petra’s story has become a well-known one around the world.  For we know now, Petra was born with an unseen defect made just for Friday morning.  She had a secret passage way for a bullet to pass through her brain, leaving it intact.  Her life was spared.  The world-wide community of believers has cried out “God is good!”  And we believe it to our core.  God is Good. 

But those standing on the sidelines of faith have shouted back,
What? You must be kidding. A six year old is dead and her mother is paralyzed.  Mothers and fathers and widows are mourning, and your God is supposedly good? 
Their awe has turned to anger.
Our pastor back in Denver wrote a beautiful blog post yesterday.  While the posting was uplifting, many of the comments were challenging and raw. 
One reader named TJ challenges:
Why were all those other people who were KILLED not saved by God, including a 6-year-old girl? I guess he likes to play favorites… I guess God is the Joker.
Those last six words are so full of hurt, fear, and anger, that you can palpably feel it.  Is God the Joker?  It's a good question.  From the sidelines of faith it's easy to answer yes.  In situations like this we are faced with our limited understanding of our own world, and frankly we don’t like it very much.  We want desperately to understand.  We want to know the rules that the world spins by so hopefully we can have some sort of control.  There is a leap in the theological debate that says:
 If God is good, the world would be good, but the world is not good, so God cannot be good.
It is easy to see how the conclusion is drawn:
 God is not good, so I don’t want this God.
I hear in TJ’s painful comment that perhaps he feels that if God likes to play favorites, TJ would prefer not to play with him.  Perhaps in TJ’s life he has not felt that God has favored him.  It is a common experience.  Burden upon burden upon burden seem to fall in some people’s lives.  It is easy to see how life’s pain hardens into the belief:
God plays favorites, blessing some people, but He didn’t pick me to favor, so I won’t pick Him to follow. 
I believe this thinking comes from being followers of the American Dream and students of the American Media.  You see the American Dream has led us to believe that life should go well for us.  That we deserve to prosper financially, live happily, and die at an old age.  The American Media shows us stories of the crooked that prosper and the good that fall on hard times.  They start their programs with five minutes of horror stories and flippantly end the broadcast with a miracle.  A happy little story to leave us feeling good, where the people say, “God has been so good.” 
If you take a minute to see this from the perspective of the TJ’ s of the world,  it’s pretty easy to understand his belief system.  He and millions of other Americans have been left mistakenly thinking that the world is full of horror and wrong, but somehow God should be praised in the moments of “good luck”.
When your heart is set on the American Dream and your eyes feast on American media, it is easy to fall into the belief that God is the Joker. 
But what about when the bullet slices a different way?  When the cancer treatment doesn’t work?  When the child doesn’t come home?  What if the media ended their daily programs following Christian families with those stories?  Then TJ could see the true and deep side of faith.  The faith that still says through nashing teeth and sob choked breaths, God is Good.   Because believe me dear TJ, that is what is said by those who are followers of Jesus Christ and students of Scripture.  You see we are living under very different expectation than the American Dream. 
We are following a God who has already told us:  In this world you will have trouble.  But take heart!  I have overcome the world.
We are educated by scripture full of stories of people whose lives didn’t go well here on earth, but who put their faith in God who promises us a better life to come.  We’re living by the examples of barren women, men sold into slavery, wandering homeless old men, and death row prisoners.  In these lives we see that while this world is full of trouble, God is using it all for his glory. So that when the bullets fly in our life we can fall to our knees and know there is a much bigger picture here than a shattered American Dream.   We can trust in a better world to come after this one.
I have seen it in the life of Reagan Joy who spent just one day on earth.  I have watched it in the life of my friend Joanne Heim, whose recovery may not be complete until she reaches Heaven.  And we now all have the privilege of watching Petra continue on her path.  Through all this we say, “God is good,” and we mean it.
You see we know God is not the Joker.  He told us the truth that we would face trouble.  It is also true that He has conquered this world.    He loved us so much that He sent His Son to pave the path for us to a better life.  A path back home, out of this temporary fallen world, to a far greater one. 

Yet for the living, those waiting to reach that better world, God calls on us to be His hands and feet to those in need.  While the media may have wrapped up Petra and her mother Kim’s story with a nice little bow called A Miracle, the reality is that Petra has a long road of recovery and Kim has a difficult battle to wage against cancer. We can all be part of blessing this family with another miracle by donating to the Anderson Relief Fund to defray medical costs of Petra’s hospital stay and Kim’s treatment.  Please consider giving and please share their story through reposting this blog, Pastor Brad’s or one of the many media stories.