He's never going to quit you...

Two Saturdays ago... two days before words like bombing, Boston, and manhunt flooded America's headlines and hearts, our sweet mother/daughter bible study met.  God in His wisdom had given our leader Cindy the perfect verse for us to talk about.

" Be strong and courageous.  Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged 
for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."  Joshua 1:9

Cindy used three examples of courage in scripture.
Moses parting the Red Sea as the Egyptian army was upon them...
David volunteering to face Goliath...
Ester going to the king to save her people...

Cindy asked the girls...
Was it Moses' staff that gave him the power to part the Red Sea?
Was it David's slingshot that gave him the courage to face a giant?
Was it Ester's crown that made her brave enough to face the king even if it cost her her life?

Of course the answer was no, no and no.  They were strong and courageous because God was with them.  So often the tables get turned at our bible study.  Our daughters become our teachers and the mothers sit with teary eyes and shaky faith, looking in wonder at these mighty little sisters of ours.  As Cindy was teaching one of the girls put up her hand - she was bursting to share

"This is it," she said, "God is never going to quit you.  That's what our verse means.  He is NEVER, EVER going to quit you.  No matter what happens.  No matter what is going on, don't worry, just don't worry.  God will NEVER quit you, He will be with you."

The little girls nodded, the mommas wiped our eyes.  Perhaps we cried because we were so happy she knew that.  Perhaps we cried because our bruised and weary hearts struggle to hold the faith of a seven year old.  We ended our study time as, we always do, with a small circle of girls praying for one another. The girls prayed for safety, for happiness, for courage, and for faith for one another. The same little girl praised God that the mommies took the time to teach the lesson.  I praised God that she had had the courage to teach the mommies the lesson.

Two days later, Emily and I sat in the family room watching reports from Boston.  Emily reached over and grabbed my hand, "Remember mommy," she said, "God is never going to quit us, and He won't quit those people either."  Amen, my little sister, amen.



Infestation


Out west the moths are big.  We call them Millers and they arrive from the eastern plains in ugly flocks that cover your bushes.  They are so gross you don't think twice about killing them.

 In our new house in Raleigh we were greeted by a few little moths. They were so slow flying and cute, I felt bad killing them.  The cuteness was my downfall.  Those cute little moths turned out to be what's called "pantry moths" and my benevolence led to a full on infestation this past week.  Open a cabinet - swoosh - out fly five.  Open the cereal - swoosh -  out fly two more.  While we were not paying any attention, those little moths destroyed our groceries and wrecked havoc in our cabinets.  The cuteness wore off.  

While I was cleaning out our cabinets this weekend I was thinking about infestations.  They sneak up on all parts of life, don't they?  I started out this year set on eating healthier and exercising 4 days a week.  Yet little snacks, little celebrations, little stressors and little time commitments have snuck up on me and destroyed my good intentions and wrecked havoc on my health.

The more I cleaned those cabinets this weekend, the more areas of my life I assessed for infestations.  I fear  I found quiet a few brewing.

  • Family Time:  a new job for me, new friendships for all of us,one additional activity for each of the girls.  As I look at the next week we don't have a single night all home together.  We've got a family time infestation. 
  • Date Nights:  upcoming church events, school spring fling night, starting a community group, work travel, Indian Princesses.  There is not a Friday or Saturday night available this month (and next month doesn't look much better.)  Wow.  Infestation!
  • Quiet Time:  waking up late, waking up still exhausted, distractions from the girls, news, work, and our move.  I HATE this - but if I am really honest, the quiet time with the Lord that I cherish each day has been infested by life lately, and its bad!
These are three important parts of my life.  This is the food of my heart and my soul and yet I have let my guard down.  Just like those cute little pantry months, I have let distractions dressed up and called "opportunities" infest my priorities, damage what I say I value, and wreck havoc on me.  

Our pantry sans shelves
Are there infestations going on in your home?  Are cute little opportunities adding up and becoming a problem in your family?  How is your health, your family, your marriage, and your walk with God?  

On Saturday Pete and I were merciless with those cute little moths.  We sucked them up with the vacuum, smashed them with fly-swatters, and sprayed them with bleach.  Then, just to make sure their offspring were not lingering around, we ripped out all the shelving in our kitchen.  We bleached the walls, and caulked the cracks.  We were pretty radical in our attempts to get our kitchen back.  



I want to be that radical with the rest of my infestations.  I want my health, my time with my family, my time with Pete, and my time with God back.  Distractions beware, I no longer think you are cute.  




Delicious Detox: A Guest Post by Caroline at Elevate Your Wellness


 Yesterday my friend Dana's facebook status started off ..."And the hectic pace continues." 
Can you relate?  I can, and most days around 2:00 I could update my status to read "I am SO stinkin' tired!"  Can you relate to that one too?  Today's  guest post by my dear friend Caroline offers wonderful insight into healthy eating to help us tired and overwhelmed mommas.  I will be joining Caroline's program starting April 10th - I'd love for you to join me too! I hope you'll take the time to hop over to Caroline's blog and explore, she and her husband have an amazing personal story and Caroline has an amazing selection of recipes and ideas.  
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I’m so honored to be sharing a post on The Celebrated Family. I LOVE reading Wendy’s blog because her passion for helping parents to grow in and pass on their Christian faith to their kids is so powerful. It shines though everything she does and she makes it seem easy and approachable.

My passion is healthy eating! I love to help YOU make time for self-care and fall in love with healthy cooking and eating. I think that self-care starts in the kitchen and having more energy starts with what you eat. If you are feeling exhausted and sick all the time, it might be as simple as changing what’s on your fork. For real.
Right about now, some of you might be thinking... see you later, I hate to cook and I don’t want to hear this but stick with me...OK? If you want to have more energy so you can show up 100% for your life and the people you love, this is for you! If you are a Momma, this is especially important for you...

I don’t have space here to share my whole story today but I’ll summarize it like this... in 2009, my very healthy husband got diagnosed with colon cancer. It turned our life upside down. You can read more about it here.

During our journey to health, we realized the power of eating whole, mostly plant-based foods. We shifted our diet because we were terrified of cancer but we stayed with it because we started experiencing amazing results. Increased energy, no more brain-fog, faster recovery after working out, clearer skin and rarely getting sick became our new normal.

Here’s what I realized... by tuning into your body and making simple changes to your diet, you can feel better from your head to your toes. You can have more energy, reach your ideal weight and most importantly stay disease-free.

I also discovered that some foods are literally were making us sick with every bite. Foods like sugar, dairy and gluten might be sending your body into a state of inflammation every single day and causing everything from anxiety to constipation to cancer.

Now, I know making changes to your diet and lifestyle can be daunting. I love to help clients ease into it. So much of it is tuning into your own body and starting to listen to the signals it’s giving you. Do you feel congested every time you eat dairy? Do you crash everyday at 2pm and desperately need a nap?  Do you get bloated and gassy when you have bread with dinner?
 
Your body is brilliant and it’s telling you everything you need to know. It’s time to tune in!

A great strategy is to ease into it or test the waters so to speak.  Try doing a 10 day whole foods detox and see how you feel. You can do anything for 10 days, right?

If you want to see how good you can feel-- create your own whole foods detox by doing the following for 7-10 days:

1.    Ditch the processed foods and eat mostly (or only) plant-based foods. This means eats lots of veggies, fruits, whole grains, nuts and seeds. Eliminate (or greatly reduce) meat, dairy, eggs and fish. Plant-based foods are easier to digest which equals more energy. Plus they are rich in fiber which helps “clean you out” so to speak.

2.    Eliminate the 3 foods that are known to cause inflammation. Sugar, gluten (wheat), and dairy. These foods may be wreaking havoc in your body and causing symptoms like migraines, GI issues, fatigue, joint pain, allergies, and skin issues. I found this in myself and see it all the time with my clients.

3.    Have 1 blended meal a day-- this can be a smoothie, a freshly-pressed juice, or a blended soup. This gives your GI tracts a break and lets your liver get to work detoxing your body. Plus you can pack a ton of nutrition into your blender!

Committing to a detox or cleanse is empowering. It’s your chance to SAY YES to ourself and find out how good you can feel.

If you are interested in getting support doing a detox, I offer a program called Delicious Detox that starts on April 10th. As you can guess from the title, I designed it to be full of delicious foods and easy to follow.

You’ll be achieving the 3 things I mentioned above without having to do a bunch of research or pour over cookbooks because I’ve done all the work for you with meals plans and a shopping guide.

And as a special offer to Wendy’s tribe, if you sign up...you’ll get a special bonus gift! A copy of Crazy, Sexy Diet by Kris Carr. Kris is one of my teachers and her book is full of inspiration and fantastic recipes. Just leave a comment on Wendy’s blog about signing up or email me to let me know and  I’ll drop the book in the mail to you.

The early bird investment ends on Wednesday so if you are interested, check it out at:

I’d love to have you join me!

Shine Bright,
Caroline

Caroline is a full-time health coach and yoga teacher. She blogs at www.elevateyourwellness.com